When you scroll through the smiling faces of your friends on vacation or out at a fancy dinner it is easy to think that everyone else is out there having a great time in their relationship's, in their jobs or as parents.
If you love your life then maybe you are celebrating with them, but if things aren't going well at work, or you are struggling in your relationship or with your kids, it is easy to compare and despair.
As a Life Coach, I have the privilege of being the person my clients can share their honest experiences with.
I am there with them as they do the work to reach a big dream, or when they finally say goodbye to someone or something that doesn't fit into their life anymore.
And after years of working with people this way, I want to tell you something very important:
You are not alone.
As humans we share the same fears and doubts.
Even my clients who, on the outside, look like they have the full package (love, success, money, health and free time) experience normal human emotions like fear, doubt and confusion.
The only difference between these people and everyone else is they decided they don't need to go through it alone. They work with me to understand those emotions and don't use them as an excuse to quit.
Most people don't do this. They try to be a lone wolf and let their negative self-talk and emotions slow their growth.
Before I became a coach, I did this too.
I thought that my own success only counted if I figured it all out alone.
I didn't want to ask for help or feedback or shine a light into the dark corners of my self-image.
That one belief held me back for years.
Then I got sick of wasting time and energy and took the leap to hire a coach to help me walk through the desert of my own self-doubt.
I love my life now.
And it started with asking for help and realizing that maybe I am not the only one experiencing these struggles.
If you are sick of trying to figure out how to create the life you want, there is still a few more days to apply to the 2020 Revitalize Your Life group program.
Not only will you get high-level coaching from me, you will get to see firsthand that you don't need to handle all your doubts, fears and big decisions alone.
We all have them.
It's part of the deal of being human.
AND they aren't a stop sign.
There is no reason you can't have the relationships and the life you want.
I can help you get there.